Rare Menopause Symptoms Through an ADHD Lens
If you’ve been following my recent explorations into life with…
Rare Menopause Symptoms Through an ADHD Lens
If you’ve been following my recent explorations into life with ADHD, you’ll know I’m endlessly fascinated by the strange crossroads where hormones and neurochemistry collide. Perimenopause, however, doesn’t politely arrive with a leaflet and a herbal tea. It storms in like an exhausted woman carrying six shopping bags, forgetting where she parked the car, while…
10 Alternative Online Support Groups
For many neurodivergent folks, traditional therapy isn’t always the right fit. Long waitlists, awkward phone calls, and the fear of being misunderstood can make support feel miles away. That’s where AI therapy tools come in. Available anytime, they offer low-pressure, stigma-free space to explore your thoughts. Whether you need help untangling anxious spirals, tracking moods,…
Porn: The Remarkable Unspoken Truth
What Debbie Did (and Why It Mattered) Once upon a time, we had to work for our visual titillation. In my day, it was Debbie Does Dallas on a scratchy VHS, hidden in someone’s dad’s sock drawer. There was build-up, grainy quality, and a real sense of mystery. Fast forward to today, and porn is…
Its Awesome that ADHD Is Trending, But Autism Isn’t
More people than ever are embracing the label ADHD.They say it out loud, own it, even joke about it. But autism? That’s a different story. Why does one feel acceptable, while the other still sits quietly in the corner like an awkward guest no one wants to acknowledge? ADHD has somehow become relatable.It’s framed as…
Midlife Relationship Crisis: She Struggles, He Runs
The Woman He Fell In Love With Is Still There There is a very uncomfortable conversation that more couples need to have. Not every affair begins because somebody “stopped loving” their partner. Sometimes it begins because one partner stopped understanding them. Or worse still, stopped trying. There seems to be a recurring pattern happening quietly…
Why Does Sex Suddenly Feel Irritating Instead of Exciting?
From someone currently wondering how “spontaneous passion” became “absolutely not, I’ve just cleaned the kitchen.” There was once a time when sex felt exciting, playful, connecting, and occasionally athletic enough to qualify for a Fitbit achievement. Fast forward to midlife, and many women are now staring into the hormonal abyss wondering why the very things…
The Ultimate Truth You Want To Know About Bedrotting
The Moment It Clicks At some point, the internet decided we are no longer simply tired. We are now “rotting”, preferably in bed, and ideally with a phone in hand. Charming, isn’t it. The first time I heard the phrase, I pictured something vaguely medical. Perhaps a Victorian illness requiring smelling salts and dramatic fainting….
The Truth About ADHD and Poor Decision Making
There was a time I dated someone who ticked every red flag box. He owned a snake, which already felt like the universe issuing a polite warning. He believed hay fever was a government scam and quoted controversial “thinkers” like sacred scripture. Looking back, it all seems painfully obvious now. At the time though, I…
The Simplistic Way To Attract Money Without Chasing
If you’re neurodivergent, you’ve probably spent a good portion of your life trying to “run the race” the way neurotypicals do. You’ve been told to grind harder, network more aggressively, and stay on that 9-to-5 treadmill until your legs give out. But for us, “the chase” isn’t just exhausting, it’s biologically expensive. When we chase…
Auditory Processing Disorder: When Hearing Isn’t the Problem
You can hear perfectly well. Yet somehow, nothing makes sense. Words arrive like badly tuned radio signals, half formed and oddly timed. You nod. You smile. You say “sorry, what?” for the third time in one minute. Eventually, people stop repeating themselves. Eventually, they think you are rude. Or slow. Or not paying attention. This…
