Its Awesome that ADHD Is Trending, But Autism Isn’t
More people than ever are embracing the label ADHD.They say…
Its Awesome that ADHD Is Trending, But Autism Isn’t
More people than ever are embracing the label ADHD.They say it out loud, own it, even joke about it. But autism? That’s a different story. Why does one feel acceptable, while the other still sits quietly in the corner like an awkward guest no one wants to acknowledge? ADHD has somehow become relatable.It’s framed as…
Midlife Relationship Crisis: She Struggles, He Runs
The Woman He Fell In Love With Is Still There There is a very uncomfortable conversation that more couples need to have. Not every affair begins because somebody “stopped loving” their partner. Sometimes it begins because one partner stopped understanding them. Or worse still, stopped trying. There seems to be a recurring pattern happening quietly…
Why Does Sex Suddenly Feel Irritating Instead of Exciting?
From someone currently wondering how “spontaneous passion” became “absolutely not, I’ve just cleaned the kitchen.” There was once a time when sex felt exciting, playful, connecting, and occasionally athletic enough to qualify for a Fitbit achievement. Fast forward to midlife, and many women are now staring into the hormonal abyss wondering why the very things…
The Ultimate Truth You Want To Know About Bedrotting
The Moment It Clicks At some point, the internet decided we are no longer simply tired. We are now “rotting”, preferably in bed, and ideally with a phone in hand. Charming, isn’t it. The first time I heard the phrase, I pictured something vaguely medical. Perhaps a Victorian illness requiring smelling salts and dramatic fainting….
The Truth About ADHD and Poor Decision Making
There was a time I dated someone who ticked every red flag box. He owned a snake, which already felt like the universe issuing a polite warning. He believed hay fever was a government scam and quoted controversial “thinkers” like sacred scripture. Looking back, it all seems painfully obvious now. At the time though, I…
The Simplistic Way To Attract Money Without Chasing
If you’re neurodivergent, you’ve probably spent a good portion of your life trying to “run the race” the way neurotypicals do. You’ve been told to grind harder, network more aggressively, and stay on that 9-to-5 treadmill until your legs give out. But for us, “the chase” isn’t just exhausting, it’s biologically expensive. When we chase…
Auditory Processing Disorder: When Hearing Isn’t the Problem
You can hear perfectly well. Yet somehow, nothing makes sense. Words arrive like badly tuned radio signals, half formed and oddly timed. You nod. You smile. You say “sorry, what?” for the third time in one minute. Eventually, people stop repeating themselves. Eventually, they think you are rude. Or slow. Or not paying attention. This…
Learning to Let Go (When You Care Too Much)
Let it go, they say.Yeah, easier said than done, I say. When someone pokes the bear in you, there’s a moment you try to stay calm, to breathe, to remember your affirmations and resist the urge to write a strongly worded text. You tell yourself you can handle it. But if that same person keeps…
Giving Up Alcohol and Weed With an ADHD Brain
You’ve decided it’s time to stop drinking, or at least stop leaning on weed to soften the edges. You’ve got willpower, a plan, maybe even a shiny new journal with motivational quotes. But somehow, two days later, you’re staring at an empty wine bottle or wondering why there’s another half-smoked joint in your ashtray. It’s…
Should You Disclose Your Neurodivergence at Work?
Back in the 80s and 90s, there was an unspoken rule at work: the less people knew about you, the better. Your health, your personal struggles, your quirks? Best left off the record. Fast-forward to 2025, and you’d think the world would have evolved. We’ve got hashtags shouting about neurodiversity inclusion, rainbow-coloured HR brochures promising…
