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The Mesij

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The Mesij Founder

Simone Wolda

My Story

The Mesij began as a quiet rebellion. About five years ago, I grew tired of the same recycled advice, carbon-copy blogs, and cookie-cutter voices. Everywhere I looked, it was déjà vu in blog form, predictable topics, polished personas, and a glaring lack of nuance or diversity. I wanted more. So I created it.

The Mesij (a phonetic wink to “message”) was born from a stubborn desire to say what others won’t, explore what others skip, and serve the curious misfits of the internet who are hungry for something real.

Here, you’ll find the risqué, the overlooked, the wildly useful, and the oddly satisfying, all in one place. Whether it's practical wisdom, uncomfortable truths, or just a brilliantly twisted take on life, this is a space for those who think deeply, feel loudly, and never quite fit the mould.

I write like I talk: candid, unfiltered, and with 32 tabs open in my brain.
I’m raising neurodivergent kids while unmasking decades of my own.
I believe emotional honesty is a superpower, not a flaw.
I don’t do toxic positivity, nor do I rise at 5am unless legally required.

The Mesij is for those who feel too weird for the world, but far too wise to shrink for it.

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Burnout Isn’t a Badge of Honour
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Hyperfocus: The Gift You Keep Calling a Problem
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Brain Fog Isn’t Laziness
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The Truth About The Horror Of Making Bad Choices

Spiritual Sanity

Spiritual Sanity
Grandma’s Fortune Teller Was Onto Something
Spiritual Sanity
Tarot Isn’t the Devil’s Work nor Gospel
Spiritual Sanity
Are You A Physical Empath?
Spiritual Sanity
Chasing Money Vs. Attracting Money

Real Talk for Men

Real Talk for Men
The Conversation about Understanding Andropause
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Supplements Every Man Needs (But Likely Skipping)
Real Talk for Men
Is Porn Making You Boring?
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Postnatal Depression In Men
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A down-to-earth approach to meaning-making and inner work, especially for the spiritually burnt-out.

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  • Relationships & Roles

11 People To Dodge Like Your Energy Depends On It

The Mesij2 months ago2 months ago08 mins

Let’s talk about emotional vampires. No garlic or silver bullets needed—just some solid boundaries and a working sense of self-worth. These are the folks who sneak into your energy field, mess with your head, and call it friendship. Here’s the updated line-up of people I’ve learned (sometimes the hard way) to avoid. Wheelbarrow people These…

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Grandma’s Fortune Teller Was Onto Something

The Mesij2 months ago2 months ago07 mins

We may live in the age of Wi-Fi and wearable tech, but humanity’s itch for a glimpse beyond the veil hasn’t gone anywhere. In fact, many ancient fortune-telling practices are not only still around—they’re thriving, shapeshifting, and sneaking into wellness retreats, Instagram Reels, and even your local coffee shop. Here’s a light-hearted, grounded look at…

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Tarot Isn’t the Devil’s Work nor Gospel

The Mesij2 months ago2 months ago09 mins

Let’s talk Tarot, yes, those little cards some folks clutch like rosary beads, while others recoil like you’ve summoned a demon just for mentioning them. Me? I’ve been dabbling for a decade or so. Ten years might not sound like a lifetime, but I’ve seen enough to know this: Tarot, like anything else, is a…

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Are You A Physical Empath?

The Mesij3 months ago2 months ago09 mins

Symptoms of a Physical Empath, How It Affects Mental Health, and a Quick Quiz to Find Out If You’re One You know that moment when your child says, “Mum, my head feels fuzzy,” and you’re mid-migraine? Or when your best friend suddenly gets moody and achy… just as you do during your cycle, not hers?…

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Chasing Money Vs. Attracting Money

The Mesij3 months ago2 months ago29 mins

  Money is a reward for giving out to society – Ken Honda Ah, the eternal dance with money—some chase it relentlessly, while others seem to attract it as effortlessly as bees to honey. But what’s the difference, really? And more importantly, how should you approach it? Let’s look at this shall we? The Great…

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Unveiling the Fascinating Cosmic Kink of Sex Magik

The Mesij3 months ago2 months ago09 mins

I’d never even heard of this practice before stumbling upon it one lazy evening down a rabbit hole of the weird and wonderful. And let me tell you—it was intriguing enough to make me sit up, sip my rum, and start digging. What I found? Well… here’s the reveal. Sex magik—yes, with a k, because…

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My Perspective On Namaste Narcissists 

The Mesij3 months ago2 months ago16 mins

The Dark Side of Lightworkers – When ‘High Vibe’ Becomes Highly Problematic Ah, spirituality. Once the sacred path of monks, mystics and wise old souls, now sometimes looking more like a glitter-drenched game of emotional dodgeball on Instagram. You’ve seen them. The “goddess of alignment,” the “soul-led coach,” or the “shaman” who got their certification…

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