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The Mesij

Real Talk for Neurodivergent Life

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The Mesij Founder

Simone Wolda

My Story

The Mesij began as a quiet rebellion. About five years ago, I grew tired of the same recycled advice, carbon-copy blogs, and cookie-cutter voices. Everywhere I looked, it was déjà vu in blog form, predictable topics, polished personas, and a glaring lack of nuance or diversity. I wanted more. So I created it.

The Mesij (a phonetic wink to “message”) was born from a stubborn desire to say what others won’t, explore what others skip, and serve the curious misfits of the internet who are hungry for something real.

Here, you’ll find the risqué, the overlooked, the wildly useful, and the oddly satisfying, all in one place. Whether it's practical wisdom, uncomfortable truths, or just a brilliantly twisted take on life, this is a space for those who think deeply, feel loudly, and never quite fit the mould.

I write like I talk: candid, unfiltered, and with 32 tabs open in my brain.
I’m raising neurodivergent kids while unmasking decades of my own.
I believe emotional honesty is a superpower, not a flaw.
I don’t do toxic positivity, nor do I rise at 5am unless legally required.

The Mesij is for those who feel too weird for the world, but far too wise to shrink for it.

Brain Fog & Burnout

Brain Fog & Burnout
Burnout Isn’t a Badge of Honour
Brain Fog & Burnout
Hyperfocus: The Gift You Keep Calling a Problem
Brain Fog & Burnout
Brain Fog Isn’t Laziness
Brain Fog & Burnout
The Truth About The Horror Of Making Bad Choices

Spiritual Sanity

Spiritual Sanity
Grandma’s Fortune Teller Was Onto Something
Spiritual Sanity
Tarot Isn’t the Devil’s Work nor Gospel
Spiritual Sanity
Are You A Physical Empath?
Spiritual Sanity
Chasing Money Vs. Attracting Money

Real Talk for Men

Real Talk for Men
The Conversation about Understanding Andropause
Real Talk for Men
Supplements Every Man Needs (But Likely Skipping)
Real Talk for Men
Is Porn Making You Boring?
Real Talk for Men
Postnatal Depression In Men
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Day-to-day life tips, challenges, and insights for adults navigating life with a differently wired brain.

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  • Neurodivergent Living

The Truth About Multicultural Communication

The Mesij3 months ago2 months ago09 mins

Let’s talk about something that’s become as essential as sunscreen in Greece: multicultural communication – or as it’s often called in professional circles, cross-cultural communication skills.  With more people packing up and moving across borders,  whether chasing sunshine, cheaper rents, or a slower pace of life – it’s time we faced a vital truth: Just…

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  • Neurodivergent Living

Ghosting Hurts—But It’s Not About You

The Mesij3 months ago2 months ago09 mins

Let’s talk about ghosting. Because apparently, it’s 2025’s preferred form of communication, silence. Whether it’s in love, friendship, or business, we’ve all had that one person go full Houdini on us. One minute they’re replying with heart emojis, the next… tumbleweed. Now, let’s be clear: ghosting is not new. But the frequency with which it…

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  • Spiritual Sanity

Tarot Isn’t the Devil’s Work nor Gospel

The Mesij3 months ago2 months ago09 mins

Let’s talk Tarot, yes, those little cards some folks clutch like rosary beads, while others recoil like you’ve summoned a demon just for mentioning them. Me? I’ve been dabbling for a decade or so. Ten years might not sound like a lifetime, but I’ve seen enough to know this: Tarot, like anything else, is a…

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  • Work & Business

So You Want to Be an Entrepreneur? Hmm

The Mesij3 months ago2 months ago09 mins

People love to romanticise entrepreneurship like it’s a scented candle: light it up, breathe in the success, and boom, you’re rich, tanned, and sipping something expensive in Bali. Lovely image, but wildly inaccurate. Let me tell you the truth, from someone who’s been doing this dance for years—I’m talking about the cha-cha, the hustle, the…

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  • Real Talk for Men

Is Porn Making You Boring?

The Mesij3 months ago2 months ago18 mins

What Debbie Did (and Why It Mattered) Once upon a time, we had to work for our visual titillation. In my day, it was Debbie Does Dallas on a scratchy VHS, hidden in someone’s dad’s sock drawer. There was build-up, grainy quality, and a real sense of mystery. Fast forward to today, and porn is…

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  • Neurodivergent Living

Semantic Abuse – The Wordplay Weapon

The Mesij3 months ago2 months ago15 mins

What is Semantic Abuse? Semantic abuse is like verbal origami, someone folds your words until they resemble something you never said. It’s a subtle manipulation tactic where meanings are twisted, your statements are rephrased inaccurately, and conversations become a game of distorted definitions. Unlike shouting matches, this happens quietly, in plain English, which makes it…

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  • Relationships & Roles

Hospice Wives and Passport Boys

The Mesij3 months ago2 months ago08 mins

Well well well, the internet’s ablaze again, and this time it’s Shannon Sharpe lighting the match. Allegedly entangled with a Only Fans Model Gabriella Zuniga barely old enough to remember life before TikTok, the controversy has tongues wagging and fingers typing furiously across the socials. It’s not just about the age gap anymore, is it?…

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  • Work & Business

Great LinkedIn Lies And Hustle Highs

The Mesij3 months ago2 months ago17 mins

Let’s be honest, shall we? LinkedIn has turned into the office kitchen of the internet, a place where everyone stands around pretending they’re “just making a cup of tea” when really they’re showing off their new reusable mug that says “CEO of Mindset” while loudly quoting Simon Sinek like it’s gospel. You can’t scroll two…

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  • Brain Fog & Burnout

The Truth About The Horror Of Making Bad Choices

The Mesij3 months ago2 months ago07 mins

There was a time I dated someone who ticked every red flag box: He owned a snake (never a good start), believed hay fever was a government scam, and quoted controversial “thinkers” like they were gospel. Looking back, it’s obvious. But at the time, I convinced myself I was just being open-minded. Spoiler: it was…

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  • Spiritual Sanity

Chasing Money Vs. Attracting Money

The Mesij3 months ago2 months ago29 mins

  Money is a reward for giving out to society – Ken Honda Ah, the eternal dance with money—some chase it relentlessly, while others seem to attract it as effortlessly as bees to honey. But what’s the difference, really? And more importantly, how should you approach it? Let’s look at this shall we? The Great…

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  • Spiritual Sanity
  • Work & Business

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