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    Tools and reflections for understanding, expressing, and managing intense or fluctuating emotions.

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    • Neurodivergent Living

    11 People To Dodge Like Your Energy Depends On It

    The Mesij1 year ago2 months ago08 mins

    Let’s talk about emotional vampires. No garlic or silver bullets needed—just some solid boundaries and a working sense of self-worth. These are the folks who sneak into your energy field, mess with your head, and call it friendship. Here’s the updated line-up of people I’ve learned (sometimes the hard way) to avoid. Wheelbarrow people These…

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    • Neurodivergent Living

    Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria: RSD Pain

    The Mesij1 year ago11 months ago08 mins

    I once cried over an email. Not a breakup email. Not a redundancy notice. Just a colleague asking, “Can we chat later?” My brain translated that into: “You’ve messed up, and we need to talk about your incompetence.” Cue spiralling thoughts, a racing heart, and a sudden urge to delete my LinkedIn profile. If that…

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    • Neurodivergent Living

    So I Think I’m Neurodivergent… Now What?

    The Mesij1 year ago1 year ago27 mins

    It started with me Googling “Why do I hate phone calls but can write essays about my feelings?” And then, three hours later, I was deep in a Reddit thread where everyone seemed to have my brain. It was like being spotted in a crowd by a stranger who just gets you. No test. No…

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    15 Ways Humans Love to Explain Things

    The Mesij1 year ago1 year ago08 mins

    Ever asked someone a simple question and received a three-part novel in return? Or found yourself nodding politely while someone explained something you literally teach for a living? Welcome to the wonderful (and sometimes wildly annoying) world of explaining – where clarity meets comedy, and intention often misses the mark by a mile. Whether it’s…

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