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The Mesij

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The Mesij Founder

Simone Wolda

My Story

The Mesij began as a quiet rebellion. About five years ago, I grew tired of the same recycled advice, carbon-copy blogs, and cookie-cutter voices. Everywhere I looked, it was déjà vu in blog form, predictable topics, polished personas, and a glaring lack of nuance or diversity. I wanted more. So I created it.

The Mesij (a phonetic wink to “message”) was born from a stubborn desire to say what others won’t, explore what others skip, and serve the curious misfits of the internet who are hungry for something real.

Here, you’ll find the risqué, the overlooked, the wildly useful, and the oddly satisfying, all in one place. Whether it's practical wisdom, uncomfortable truths, or just a brilliantly twisted take on life, this is a space for those who think deeply, feel loudly, and never quite fit the mould.

I write like I talk: candid, unfiltered, and with 32 tabs open in my brain.
I’m raising neurodivergent kids while unmasking decades of my own.
I believe emotional honesty is a superpower, not a flaw.
I don’t do toxic positivity, nor do I rise at 5am unless legally required.

The Mesij is for those who feel too weird for the world, but far too wise to shrink for it.

Brain Fog & Burnout

Brain Fog & Burnout
Burnout Isn’t a Badge of Honour
Brain Fog & Burnout
Hyperfocus: The Gift You Keep Calling a Problem
Brain Fog & Burnout
Brain Fog Isn’t Laziness
Brain Fog & Burnout
The Truth About The Horror Of Making Bad Choices

Spiritual Sanity

Spiritual Sanity
Grandma’s Fortune Teller Was Onto Something
Spiritual Sanity
Tarot Isn’t the Devil’s Work nor Gospel
Spiritual Sanity
Are You A Physical Empath?
Spiritual Sanity
Chasing Money Vs. Attracting Money

Real Talk for Men

Real Talk for Men
The Conversation about Understanding Andropause
Real Talk for Men
Supplements Every Man Needs (But Likely Skipping)
Real Talk for Men
Is Porn Making You Boring?
Real Talk for Men
Postnatal Depression In Men
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Sex, ADHD, And Everything Else

The Mesij2 months ago2 months ago07 mins

Let’s be real, no one ever sits you down after a neurodivergent diagnosis and says, “By the way, your relationship with sex might get weird.” Whether it’s hypersexuality, hyposexuality, or a confusing cocktail of both, sexuality and ND wiring can be a messy mix. And to make it even murkier? People love to throw labels…

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  • Sex & Intimacy

When Your Libido Goes On Vacation

The Mesij3 months ago2 months ago09 mins

The Impact of Menopause on Sexual Identity and Desire When I was younger, I had never even considered the longevity of my sex life once I got older. It simply wasn’t on my radar — I was too busy trying to figure out if that look from across the bar meant dinner or disaster. But…

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Foundations & Reflections

Foundations & Reflections
The Cult of Celebrity Worship
Foundations & Reflections
Why can’t black people swim
Foundations & Reflections
Under Where? The Case of Skipping Knickers
Foundations & Reflections
Designer Shoes & Beauty Standards Madness

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